XI Messages Stuck in DLNG Status

We have to occasionally deal with messages being stuck in DLNG status. The usual way of resolving the problem is to either restart Messaging System Service or restarting the J2EE node where the message is stuck. This cause a lot of messages to fail in the production environment.

Is there any way to deal with this problem without restarting Messagng System Service/J2ee node or affecting any other message in the process of solving the problem?