Stock Transfer Order with Delivery

Hi,

I have been researching about STO configuration and I'm confuse because some post says use "UB" and some says use "NB". Our company needs create Transfer Order with Delivery. I also is confuse when i create STO and save, there's no Shipping Tab in the STO. What will I need to Configure to trigger this shipping Tab? Is there anybody nice enough who can show me a link for a step by step with screen shot for this configurations?

Thanks...

Ber