unble to find sap folder under /oracle/SID/11204/

Hi All,

I am patching my db from 11.2.0.3.0 to 11.2.0.4.0, I have uncared all the files to/oracle/stage

and started runinstaller and was successful,

when i try to update DB , I am not able to find sap directory under /oracle/SID/11204 to start upgrade assistant

Can some one help me

Thanks