can not stop related R3 job when BW job failed

Hi, experts,

BW, I start infopackage load : REQU_3ZU712LZQJSAHBH6114T67U6N, then the job is failed since some lock problem. then I go to manually set traffic light is "Red",

but, when I go to R3, I still see job "BIREQU_3ZU712LZQJSAHBH6114T67U6N" is still running, because this job is sceduled by BW RFC user. so I can not manuall stop it.

Meantime, if I restart the infopackage in BW, system will give me a errer "Object request is currently locked by user xxxx"

in this case, how to deal with it?